Just a couple of things:
Sure, losing your virginity in an insane asylum could be iffy because rules might prohibit sexual activity, but I don’t see why it’s so wrong. If both parties are consenting (surprise, people who are mentally ill can consent), what is the big deal?
"To a girl you don’t know." There’s nothing wrong with having sex with someone you don’t know. Virginity is not some special little flower to everyone. Some people just wanna fuck.
No one has said that it’s “better”, but there’s a stronger argument for Stiles losing his virginity to someone his own age than someone he cannot legally consent to.
Stiles having sex with a girl is not the same as Stiles having sex with a girl because having sex with a boy would be gross. It’s just Stiles having sex with a girl because he wants to have sex with a girl. Not everything is a direct attack on Sterek.
For a group of people who constantly push the idea of bisexual Stiles, you guys don’t seem to like the idea of Stiles getting it on with both sexes. Do you guys not get that you’re practically erasing the idea of Stiles’ bisexuality by constantly objecting to him having sex with a girl?
Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction or sexual behavior toward both males and females.
Please, show me an example of Stiles bisexuality. I have never seen it. If one were to look at it logically, one would see that Stiles has shown no real inclination toward men AT ALL. Innuendo doesn’t count.
Stiles is seventeen this year if I remember correctly. All U.S. states set their age of consent limits between 16 and 18. Smack dab in the middle. Yee Haw! Get that boy some cock and twat! Lydia? Derek? Now you two fight over him! Show Stiles who loves him more!
Stating that there’s nothing wrong with having sex with someone you don’t know is a bold statement. I never said it was wrong. Religion aside, do you have any links from a psychiatric journal to help your statement? The psychological issues alone can be problematic, surely. Perhaps you can find answers at the center for HPV, HIV, syphilis, herpes, or gonorrhea. Or as some people call it: Chlamydia Clinic. Here’s an idea. Try fucking up a bunch of people without a condom for a year. Say, three a week. Oh, come now… You got the mojo! They don’t even need to be in an asylum! See how fulfilled you are after those glorious 365 days. Get your wallet out too; kid’s are expensive.
Your claim reads like you don’t have a sense of self worth. But hey, some people don’t. I’m not judging you. I wish you would do the same. Do you think Stiles has a sense of self worth? I’m betting he does.
Never showing Stiles emoting to a guy when he’s supposedly bi IS suggesting it’s better to be with a girl by the writers. Besides, it’s not true to his character. What repercussions would that have to someone in real life? Methinks unhappiness would be at the top of the list.
If people never see positive representations of themselves, how do you think they should cope? I know, make them.
Lastly, as a person who has had sex with both men and women, I have no problem seeing Stiles with a girl. However, if he’s bi… let’s see him like a boy. If I claim I’m a baker but I never bake, am I really a baker?
Finally, shutupteenwolffans, your tumblr name is rude.You can take this last bit of advice and use it or you can put it in your pipe and smoke it, being deliberately offensive makes your arguments seem less valid.
Yes, that is the definition of bisexuality but that doesn’t mean a bisexual has to have sex with both men and women in order to be bisexual. I thought this was common knowledge.
I never said Stiles was bisexual so there’s that. I said for a group of people who herald the idea of him being bisexual, Sterek shippers sure do not like the idea of Stiles having sex with both girls and guys, or in other words, anyone who isn’t Derek.
16 or 17, both are still under the legal age of consent. I don’t know how many times this has to be said but it doesn’t matter that he’s of age of consent in other states, he does not live in other states, he lives in California. Additionally, in some of the states where the age of consent is below 18, there is still a law that says the older person in a relationship cannot be older than the younger person by a certain number of years, most common is four, meaning Derek would still be too old to have sex with Stiles legally if 16 was the age of consent in his state.
What in God’s name is this paragraph? There is nothing wrong with having sex with people you don’t know. Not everyone heralds sex as something special. To some, it’s just something to please yourself with and there’s nothing wrong with that. And I don’t need anyone to back that up because it’s a fact. If people feel guilt after having sex with several people, it’s because society tells them they’re guilty, not because it’s normal to feel that way. I don’t know what you’re going on about with the condomless sex stuff or the STD talk, because not everyone who has a lot of sex does so without protection. Being promiscuous does not equate to being unsafe. When it comes to Stiles and Malia, both were virgins and therefore STD free, unless there’s some sort of coyote-to-human STD that we don’t know about that Malia could’ve contracted and brought with her when she morphed back into a human, but let’s not talk hypotheticals.
I don’t have a sense of self worth? Are you implying that my ideas on sex mean I don’t have a sense of self worth? Sorry, but I don’t equate self worth to how one conducts themselves sexually. And if you want to get technical here, you’re the one complaining that Stiles fucked Malia in a basement because you’re mad it wasn’t Derek. Where is your sense of self worth?
I never said he was bi so this paragraph is irrelevant to me.
Sterek isn’t representation. Forcing two toxic characters together who do not interact and are not legally allowed to be together is not good representation. If anything, it only furthers the stereotype that older queer men are sexual predators who prey on kids. Do you know what would be good queer representation? Either introducing new queer characters who are not sidelined or, you know, bringing the already-existing queer characters to the forefront. But that’s never good enough for you Sterek shippers, is it?
Again, nope, that’s not how bisexuality works. Stiles can be with a girl and only girls for the rest of his life and still be a bisexual.
Lmao, the “less valid because I didn’t like what you said because it hurt my feelings” argument. I’m not going to regress to a middle schooler and get upset that someone doesn’t like what I have to say. That is your problem, not mine.